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Self-regulation tips

When you are feeling overwhelmed, stressed, panicked or anxious, try the following:

  • Drop your shoulders – lowering your shoulders signals to the brain that the threat has passed, reducing cortisol and shifting you out of fight-or-flight mode. 
  • Unclench your jaw – relaxing the jaw sends a message to your vagus nerve so that you are safe; helping the body move towards calm.
  • Breathe in for 4 and out for 6 – exhaling for longer, activates your vagus nerve, slowing your heart rate and calming the body within one minute.
  • Put a hand on your heart – this helps the body release oxytocin, which signals safety, connection and grounding to your nervous system.
  • Name your emotion – this helps you to process and regulate your emotions more effectively.
  • Name 3 things around you – this uses a grounding technique called 'orienting' which signals safety to your brain and helps deactivate the stress response. 

Mrs Westergaard, Wellbeing Team

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